Romans: By His Grace - For His Glory

5th in the Series

Christian Character

Romans 1:8-11

March 24, 1996

by J. David Hoke

First, I thank my God through Jesus Christ for all of you, because your faith is being reported all over the world. God, whom I serve with my whole heart in preaching the gospel of his Son, is my witness how constantly I remember you in my prayers at all times; and I pray that now at last by God's will the way may be opened for me to come to you. I long to see you so that I may impart to you some spiritual gift to make you strong.
(Romans 1:8-11 NIV)

What is the real measure of a human being? If you take the time to look closely, you will notice that a human life is defined by a multitude of qualities, relationships, circumstances, and possessions. When you examine a person closely, you discover the extent of their education, experience in life, material possessions, career achievement, and success in raising a family. It is easy to see how a person is dressed, using language, and appears to others. And we tend to evaluate people in terms of all of these factors. But what can these things tell us?

Certainly we can learn some things by the kind of examination mentioned. These are external things, and externals do say something about us. But it is important to note that externals, while they say something about us, do not say everything about us. Indeed, externals may not even say what is most important about us. In fact, they do not.

The problem with judging based on outward appearance is that appearances are often deceiving. With a little thought, a person can appear to be something that is not really true. We must look deeper. The old proverb that you cannot judge a book by its cover is never more true than today. In a day with multicolored and graphically designed book covers, you never really know whether what is advertised on the outside is really present on the inside. As always, you must judge a book by its content, not by its cover. And you must judge your own life in the same manner.

Martin Luther King, Jr., touched on the key issue during his famous speech at the Civil Rights March in Washington in August, 1963. He said, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character." Indeed! The issue is not external appearance but internal character. We are who we are on the inside. Your character is who you are when no one is looking. You can take the pig out of the mud hole but you can't get the mud hole out of the pig. As soon as he finds another one, he will flop dead-center in the middle of it. It's just his nature.

The Bible says a lot about Christian character. There we find that each of us is called to exhibit the character of Christ. And we see many examples of this kind of character. Today we will see some examples of the character of Paul. Hopefully, we will see some things which we ourselves possess, and other things which we want.

This should be extremely important to us - this issue of Christian character. Zig Ziglar asked a very pertinent question. He said, "Your Christian attitude is contagious. Is yours worth catching?" How would you answer that question? The answer is critical. You see, our character will determine our influence.

I have had many teachers. Some have taught me more than others. The ones who have taught me the most have been those who may not have had the most information, but who showed me by their lives how to live. This should be the goal of every Christian. So in these few verses of Romans, let's take a look at some of the characteristics of Paul's life.

A Thankful Attitude

The first characteristic, which describes Paul's character, is thankfulness. Paul maintained a thankful attitude. His first personal words to these Christians in Rome were, "I thank my God through Jesus Christ for all of you." And he had something for which to be thankful. You see, their faith was being reported all over the world. This should be true for all Christians. Still some whould say that this was only polite conversation. I do not believe that. This truly reflected a characteristic of Paul's attitude. He had learned to be thankful.

In fact, this is rather remarkable. When you look at Paul's life, you see that he had no easy time. Indeed, because of his commitment to Christ, he had suffered a great deal of persecution. He could have developed a bitter and unthankful attitude. He had been persecuted from city to city, beaten, stoned, imprisoned. But he was given to thankfulness. We see Paul and Silas, locked up in the deepest dungeon of the jail in Philippi, singing at midnight! Only two kinds of people would do such a thing- fools or genuinely thankful people. And Paul was certainly no fool.

He had seen the power of thanksgiving in his own life personally. He knew that thanksgiving was an essential element in everything he did. Listen to what he says about the key to effective prayer, in Philippians 4:6: "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God." Even prayer must be offered with thanksgiving in order to be effective. Alexander Whyte, the Scottish preacher, always began his prayers with an expression of gratitude. One cold, miserable day his people wondered what he would say. He prayed the following: "We thank Thee, O Lord, that it is not always like this." Whyte knew that there was always something for which to be thankful, even on a dreary day. And we should learn the same lesson.

How do you rate in this category? Do you have an attitude of gratitude? Have the tough times in life left you bitter or made you better? Thanksgiving can make all the difference. It is a true characteristic of spiritual maturity. It is a true reflection of the nature of Christ. Without thankfulness, a Christian's character is not complete.

A Servant's Spirit

The next characteristic we notice is that Paul possessed a servant's spirit. He indicates that his ministry of preaching the Gospel was one in which he was committed to serve God with his whole heart. It is easy to miss this. But this is not just religious talk. In fact, we find no such religious talk in Paul at all.

Notice the focus of his service. It is to God. Even though the preaching of the Gospel was directed at the people, Paul saw that his devotion was to God alone. Paul's ministry was never man-centered; it was always God-centered. And our service can never be for people. It must always be for God. We may serve people, but we serve them for God. Because we first serve Him, we can serve others.

Notice also the depth of his service. It was with his whole heart. It was not half-hearted service. It was whole-hearted service. This is the only kind of service God desires.

There is an interesting passage in 1 Kings 11. It is the story of Solomon, the wisest man in the world. Unfortunately this story is not about his wisdom. God had told Solomon not to take foreign women as wives. Solomon, however, chose to disobey God and marry many foreign wives. Solomon did not have simply one foreign wife, he had hundreds. In fact, he had one thousand women.

The result was that Solomon allowed his heart to be turned away from God. Listen to what the Scripture says in 1 Kings 11:4, "As Solomon grew old, his wives turned his heart after other Gods, and his heart was not fully devoted to the Lord his God, as the heart of David his father had been." God judged Solomon because he was not fully devoted to Him.

What does this say to us? The answer is simple. It says that 95% devotion is 5% short. God desires that we, like Paul, serve Him with our whole heart.

How do you rate on this standard? Do you have a servant's spirit? Are you following God because of what you can get out of it? Or would you characterize your life as one that seeks to serve?

A Prayerful Concern

Another characteristic of Paul's inner character expresses itself in a prayerful concern. He called God to be his witness of how constantly I remember you in my prayers at all times. In other words, Paul was concerned about these Christians whom he had never met. That concern moved Paul to pray.

This was not unusual for Paul. Prayer had become more than something he did on occasion. Prayer had become a way of life for Paul. Over and over in his letters, Paul emphasizes the importance of prayer. In 1 Thessalonians 5:17 he exhorts us to "pray continually." In Ephesians 6:18 he says, "And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints." These kinds of exhortations fill Paul's letters to the churches.

Again, prayer is a characteristic of the nature of Christ. In the Gospels, we see that Christ would always steal away and find a solitary place to pray. He spent whole nights in prayer. Prayer was as natural to our Lord as breathing is to us. And prayer should be natural for the Christian, although it could be described as supernaturally-natural.

How are you doing on this one? Is your life characterized by prayer? Do you pray with concern and out of an attitude of thanksgiving for your brothers and sisters in Christ?

A Submissive Will

An additional characteristic of Paul is that he had developed a submissive will. Notice what he says in the last part of verse ten: "and I pray now at last by God's will the way may be opened for me to come to you." Again no religious talk here. When Paul spoke of God's will he was not only indicating that he was concerned about knowing that will but he was also indicating that he was willing to submit to that will in his own life.

Paul recognized something that all Christians should recognize. He recognized that the Lord controlled his life. He understood that God had a will for everything in his life and he was content for it to be so. He had developed a submissive attitude of heart. He had decided that he would bring his will captive to Christ.

This is what we mean when we talk about surrender. To surrender to Jesus Christ means that we willingly submit ourselves to Him. And submission begins in the heart of the one who submits. Submission is never imposed upon from without. True submission is a decision on the part of the one who chooses to submit. Otherwise it is not really submission.

The story is told of a little boy in a highchair. One day his mother found him standing up in the highchair and told him to sit down. He replied that he would not! She told him again. Again in defiance, he said that he would not. After several repeated attempts to get him to sit down, she was at the end of her rope. She told him that if he did not sit down in that highchair at once she would give him a spanking, and she meant it. As he sat down he said, "I may be sitting down on the outside, but I'm standing up on the inside." He may have submitted, but that is not submission. Submission begins on the inside. Paul had a submissive will.

Where are you on the submission scale? Are you standing up on the inside? Have you truly surrendered to Jesus Christ, or are you simply allowing Him to have a little bit of your life.

A Gracious Heart

One final characteristic in this passage of Scripture could be described as a gracious heart. Paul shares something of his heart when he says, "I long to see you so that I may impart to you some spiritual gift to make you strong." He not only wanted to come to them, he wanted to give to them. He wanted to see them, not so that he could be the beneficiary of their goodness, but so he could impart to them some spiritual gift. Here is a gracious heart indeed.

So many people today are wrapped up in what they can get out of life. The popular slogan on television tells us that we only go around once and so we must grab all the gusto we can get. We've become a consumer oriented society. We preach the new gospel of meeting needs. Even churches are chosen like this today. People look to see what kind of youth program, or children's program, or single's program, or music program or other program is available. Implied is the question: "What can you do for me?" Seldom is the question asked: "What can I do for the church?" John Kennedy, in his inaugural address, issued the powerful challenge: "Ask not what your country can do for you; ask what you can do for your country." It would be just as relevant to challenge Christians in the same way. "Ask not what your church can do for you; ask what you can do for your church." Does this sound strange? It shouldn't.

These attitudes of heart should be present in Christians who are seeking to mature. Where Christianity is genuine, Christians desire to serve. And, of course, it reflects the character of Christ. He is the ultimate example of what it means to lay one's life down for another. And He told us that we should do as He did.

Where are you in this regard? Have you come to the place where you agree with Jesus that it is truly better to give than to receive? Do you desire to impart a blessing to others or do you demand that they bless you first?

Part of growing in the Lord is being changed from the inside out. Developing a thankful attitude, a servant's spirit, a prayerful concern, a submissive will, and a gracious heart is part of the process of becoming like Christ. It is part of the process of being conformed to the image of God's Son. It is called maturity.

If you have been challenged by these characteristics and desire to see them grow in your life, you must understand that they come from a living relationship with Jesus. They come from a surrender of your life to Him and from a surrender of your whole heart. As you live from that point of surrender and allow God to make sense out of all that you have experienced in life, you will find His character growing up inside of you. That's the real issue of life. That is what really matters.


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